I just kinda like pussy more than the idea of arseholes. Straight Man Two: I don't do it, but then I haven't even done anal with a girl. VICE: Do you like fingers in your butt during sex? I think the idea of someone penetrating you in some way doesn't vibe with a lot of straight guys. I think it's to do with male pride, also. It's butters, because it's my arsehole, so get the fuck away from my arsehole. Straight Man One: I can talk about it, but only how butters it is and how I've never done it. VICE: Hi, can you talk about getting your butt fingered? Whether it's a tentative little finger, rimming or a full-on strap-on experience, expressing a desire for a woman to explore the back door – in many people's eyes – is as good as admitting you're way up there on the Kinsey scale.īut so many men do enjoy it, so why all the secrecy? Why has there not been a mass movement of men banding together to proclaim their love of receiving a finger in the butt in a sexual context? To get a better gauge on things I spoke to five straight men about it, all of whom wanted to remain anonymous. Any sexual act to do with a guy's butt is still seen as borderline homosexual, and many straight men have a problem with that.
